●Don’t shout at your wife when you are
talking. It really hurts her. (Proverbs 15:1)
●Do not speak evil of her to anyone. Your wife
will become who you call her. (Gen. 2:19)
●Do not share her love or affection with
another woman. It is called Adultery. (Matt. 5:28)
●Never compare your wife to another woman.
If the other woman was good for you, God
would have given her to you. (2 Cor. 10:12)
●Don’t ever allow her to beg you for sex. She
owns your body just as you own her body. (1 Cor. 7:5)
●Be gentle and accommodating. She has
sacrificed so much to be with you. It hurts her
deeply when you are hash and irritating. Be
tender. (Eph. 4:2)

●Hide nothing from her. You
are now one and she’s your helpmeet. Let there be no secret
you are keeping from her. (Gen. 2:25)
●Do not make negative comment about her
body. She risked her life and beauty to carry
your babies. She is a living soul not just flesh
and blood.

●Do not let her body determine her worth.
Cherish and appreciate her even till old age.
(Eph. 5:29)
●Never shout at her in the public and in
private. If you have an issue to sort with her,
do it in the privacy of your room. (Matt. 1:19)

●Thank and appreciate her for taking good
care of you, the kids and the house. It is a
great sacrifice she is making. (1 The 5:18)
●All women cannot cook the same way;
appreciate your wife’s food. It is not easy to
cook three meals a day, 365 days a year for several years. (Pro. 31:14)
●Never place your siblings before her. She is
your wife. She is one with you. She must come
before your family. (Gen. 2:24)
●Invest seriously in her spiritual growth. Buy
books, tapes and any material that will edify her and strengthen her walk with God. That’s
the best thing you can do for her. (Eph. 5:26)
●Spend time with her to do Bible study and
pray. (James 5:16)
●Make time to play with her and enjoy her
company. Remember when you are dead, she’s gonna be by your grave but your friends may
be too busy to attend your funeral. (Ecc. 9:9)
●Never use money to manipulate or control
her. All your money belongs to her. She is a
joint heir with you of the grace of God. (1 Pet.

●Do not expose her weakness. You will be
exposing yourself too. Be a shield around her.
(Eph. 5:30)
●Honour her parents and be kind to her
siblings. (SOS 8:2)

●Never cease to tell her
how much you love her all the days of her life. Women are never
tired of hearing that. (Eph. 5:25)
●Grow to be like Christian ,That’s the only way
you can be a good and godly husband. (Rom.
8:29) AMEN